Not all men are Dicks!

Tired of Dating Unavailable Men That Leave You Feeling Empty, Lonely and Fed Up? Ready To Get Off The Dating Rollercoaster And Attract a Partner Ready For Love?

Unlock the Secrets to Finding Love, Embracing Your Effing Fabulous Self, and Building a Truly Fulfilling Romantic Relationship After 40.

Say goodbye to wasting any more time watching history repeat itself while trying to figure

how to break the cycle on your own.

You want to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship so...

You thought about doubling down and dating more because you've heard it's a numbers game.

BUT you’re not ready to invest more time and energy into trying only to potentially have to go through even more pain and disappointment when things don't work out

That’s why you considered re-connecting with the ex you know is still into you.

BUT you know deep down in your gut, going back into that relationship isn't what you want. Things always felt off. They didn't see you or hear you fully. Plus: You weren't compatible on some big things like marriage. You wanted it. He definitely didn't.

You even thought about saying YES to the man that was a walking red flag... maybe he'll change.

BUT ignoring red flags has only ever led to your own heartbreak. And you're done breaking your heart by saying YES to the guys that show you they're not right for you.

And despite following all the dating advice from blogs, forums, and YouTube, you still keep attracting the wrong people and not meeting anyone with genuine potential for a real connection.

Now you want a better way to get support and overcome these obstacles, so you can finally find that love you've been looking for.

LET'S BE HONEST: THERE ARE A LOT OF DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACHES & COURSES OUT THERE. AND THERE’S SO MUCH FREE ADVICE ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Most of the courses don't give you everything you need and are crazy expensive.

The free advice only gives you snippets of what you need, so it takes a lot of time and effort to piece together the solution, and even then, you don’t know if it’s what you need to change your love life.

Investing a lot of time or money into trying to figure out how to stop...

🤯unhelpful love patterns

🫣making lousy choices with men

❌ And still not feeling confident or trusting that you can make good choices in relationships or attracting matches with potential is the worst feeling in the world.

Do you feel like you’ve tried everything to feel more confident and change your love life, but nothing seemed to work?

Or you invest your energy in trying to date, but you don't attract the right people and

don’t meet anyone with genuine potential for a real connection?

I know how frustrating that feels I was here for 10+ years

Maybe you’ve tried...

General personal development and healing work are great for improving self-love and giving you a boost in confidence. Still, they only get you so far in helping your love life if they don’t address the deeper programming / underlying issues that create your relationship reality

Using only logic and determination to get new love life results is why YOU DON'T SEE RESULTS. There is deeper programming at play in your relationship autograph that make change impossible if it isn’t addressed and rewired.

Improving your love life without looking at the impact of what you experienced in childhood -- you don't believe it plays ANY role in your adult relationships. It wasn’t until I finally addressed childhood beliefs and programming that everything changed in my love life.

Like you I was stuck…

For 10+ years, I repeated the same mistakes with men.

😬I was a complete mess in my love life. Not realising I was part of the problem.

❤️ Dated with a closed heart because I was so scared of making the same mistakes and having my heart broken again

❌Attracted all the unavailable guys in the North and South of England!

🧐Wanted things to be different but didn't believe they could be

😩Had NO clue how much my past played out in dating and relationships.

I kept repeating these same mistakes until I unlocked the key that helped me take responsibility for my role in past relationships.

And after addressing what was in my relationship autograph that was responsible for my unhelpful patterns and undesirable results, At 45, I am now in my first-ever healthy, long-term, committed relationship (We matched on Tinder 3 years ago 🥰)

Of course, it takes work, but it is a healthy, functional relationship that feels easy and fulfilling.

Hi I'm sarah...

And I’ll be honest with you:

Getting to this point wasn’t easy

My name is Sarah and when I started personal development work, I had been stuck in the same toxic cycles with men for 10+ years.

By working on myself, I broke free from unhealthy relationships with my body, food, and toxic friend circles. And other relationships in my life became stronger and healthier.

👉So, in 2018, I decided to start taking finding a relationship seriously. So I began putting myself back out there. Assuming that I would not experience the same as I always had due to my better relationship with myself. And I did match with some nice guys.

But then...

I met this hot man through Instagram. I was excited because we had a lot of shared interests; he was funny the conversation was easy. I felt like we'd known each other for years, not just a few weeks.

My gut was telling me something was off.

😔 But I ignored it and justified every red flag I saw (some were HUGE).😔

❌I got very attached very quickly, turned out he was 100% not available and had never been looking for anything serious ❌

The red flags had pointed to this and his toxic traits in relationships with women. So why had I ignored them? I couldn't believe it. How was I back to being in the same situations with men BEFORE working on myself?

So I tried...

❌ Online therapy (but the sessions were expensive, and irregular and the pace was slow)

❌Doubling down on self-help books, reading forums and asking all my friends what they thought

❌ Spending £1000's hiring a life coach (which was helpful, but over 12 weeks, it still didn't help me get to the bottom of what was really going on, and I couldn't afford another 12 weeks)

I told myself:

There must be a faster, more cost-effective solution to overcome whatever is causing me to repeat the same mistakes with men, EVEN when I have a good relationship with myself.

And that's when it hit me!

RELATIONSHIP PROGRAMMING STARTS IN CHILDHOOD, so this would be the logical and perfect place to start. And that’s when I uncovered what I call the

Relationship Autograph

And after addressing this, things finally made sense, and I started to see the results I'd wanted for so long:

✅ The emotional rollercoaster I'd always be on in dating stopped

✅ No more entertaining men who weren't clear about what they wanted or made me feel confused

✅ Ditched the scarcity mindset that made me ignore red flags and my gut

✅ Stopped attracting unavailable men with toxic traits

✅ Stopped attracting unavailable men with toxic traits and pushing away men who were available.

By discovering my relationship autograph, changing my relationship foundation (fully supported by the universe), and intentionally showing up differently, I created a new reality in my love life.

I know you might be thinking, “I don’t think this isn’t possible for me.

But I’m telling you it is.

What’s possible for me is possible for you. (With the right guidance).

IT ONLY TAKES 3 SIMPLE STEPS TO

🌟Break old love habits so you stop repeating the same toxic mistakes.

🌟Change your relationship autograph to attract more of what you want and less of what you don’t.

🌟Date in a healthy way so you can meet your right partner and finally be in a functional and thriving relationship.

These are the 3 steps my clients took ⬇️

I went from being afraid to be seen by men, after my toxic marriage, to feeling safe and sexy with my new man.

I no longer walk on egg shells or second guess myself within the relationship.

If I need reassurance, space to think, say what I like/don't like he will hold space for me with genuine patience.

I never thought a man like this could exist; he's like a male version of myself. I am no longer settling,

I'm going for what meets my standards and Sarah's coaching has helped me to find true love, better relationships with friends/family and career progression.

Thank you Sarah!"

Leonie went from being afraid to be seen by men, after her toxic marriage, to feeling safe and sexy with my new man.

She no longer walk on egg shells or second guesses herself within her relationship.

"Coaching with me helped her find true love, better relationships with friends/family and career progression. "

Kerry wants to remain anonymous but is happy to chat with anyone 1:1 to share her experience.

❌Having never dated online before & fearing repeating past mistakes with men

✅Being empowered, secure and at ease and attracting quality matches and going on dates.

❤️AND IS NOW IN A RELATIONSHIP with her dream guy!

What if you could stop the cycle of dead-end dating and unhealthy, unfulfilling relationships and instead find the perfect partner for you to build a fun-filled but peaceful life with? Someone who sees you, hears you, supports your dreams and has his sh*t together.

Sounds too good to be true?

Keep reading and I’ll show you exactly how!

Discovering your unique relationship autograph will help you:

1.Take responsibility for your role in your past relationships so you can...

Stop the cycle of dead-end dating, unhealthy, unfulfilling relationships, and repeat mistakes.

Be empowered to stop making terrible choices in partners and learn to trust yourself.

Experience a positive shift in who you attract.

2.Release baggage from the past so you

No longer give your power to past people and experiences and continue to let them control your life and future.

Feel liberated from the emotional baggage that has been dragging you down and can feel like a load has been lifted off your shoulders, which puts you in magnetic attraction energy so you attract more of what you want & less of what you don’t

Are less triggered and more in charge of your emotions, so external circumstances no longer control how you feel about yourself and your life, which allows you to be who you want to be and make better choices.

3.Create a new reality so you can

Manifest the right partner to build a fun-filled but peaceful life with. Be with someone who sees you, hears you, supports your dreams and has his sh*t together.

Be the version of yourself you want to be. The you that feels confident, seggsy, empowered and feels accepting and happy with the reflection staring back at her in the mirror.

Experience a positive manifestation ripple effect across your entire life so your life.

I know because you are a brilliant, capable and wise woman (yes, you are), you could probably figure things out given enough time.

But, you don’t want to waste more time (or money)trying to piece things together on Google, never feeling 100% confident that what you’re doing is correct or trying to date but feeling fearful history might repeat it’s self…

SKIP YEARS OF trawling through self-help books, blogs and YouTube

And learn how to...

Crack the love code, rewrite your love story, and cultivate the confidence to embrace your true self in relationships and life through creating a new relationship autograph.

Inside the Love Makeover Membership

The first membership for single women to combine the inner and outer solutions needed to break unhealthy relationship cycles and remove love obstacles, so you can, manifest the relationship you desire without wasting more time dating the wrong people or trying to figure things out on your own.

Here’s what you get inside

24/7 support in our members-only group
A dedicated online community platform where you and other members can connect, support each and share your experiences.

Live training + on demand video training

Transformative lessons inside a personal portal that teach you and give you everything you need to:

Let go of the past physically, mentally and emotionally.
Change your relationship autograph and attraction energy
Strengthen and deepen the relationship with yourself and feel more confident

Begin dating again with confidence and support.

Step-by-step checklists so you know what to do and don’t feel overwhelmed.

Printable workbooks for you to download and work through

Energy healing tools and practices, including deep meditations & hypnosis for unconscious mind healing and emotional release tools and practices

Bi-weekly Q&A Calls: Engage in live coaching sessions where you can ask questions, seek guidance, and receive personalised support from me. If you can’t attend live, no problem. All calls get recorded.

Hot Seat Coaching: You can apply to participate in hot seat coaching sessions during live group calls; this lets you receive my focused attention and coaching while other members learn from the experiences and insights.

Feedback on dating profiles
Pop-up challenges, events and retreats.

This is like...

... Joining an expensive Group Coaching Program Or Hiring a private coach To Help You get support to overcome your love obstacles, rebuild your confidence and begin to consistently date with ease so you can find the relationship you want.

WHILE PAYING JUST A FRACTION OF THE USUAL COST!

But I didn’t stop there because I want to ensure you have everything you need for success.

IF YOU JOIN TODAY, YOU'LL GET:

The core transformational lessons...

phase Zero: The warm up!

Just Sit There Exercise
Illuminating Your Future Relationship
Goal Setting For Your Journey

phase one: Discovering Your Unique Relationship Autograph

Lesson 1: Exploring Your Relationship Patterns and Themes
Lesson 2: Unveiling Your relationship blocks: Bringing Limiting Beliefs and Fears to Light
Lesson 3: Unpacking Childhood Imprinting and Identifying Relationship Profile

Phase Two: Rewriting Unhelpful Programming and Patterns

Lesson 4: Letting Go and Rewriting Unhelpful Programming and Patterns
Lesson 5: Putting Down The Love Shield Down and Mastering Attraction Energy
Lesson 6: Embracing the Shadow for More Self-Acceptance

Phase 3: Making Your Relationship Vision a Reality

Lesson 1: Revisiting Deal Breakers and Exploring Values
Lesson 2: Developing a Healthy Dating Strategy
Lesson 3: Navigating Healthy Dating and Relationships

And the tools and workbooks you need:

plus these amazing bonuses

Get it now...

The Love Makeover Method Membership

Crack the love code, rewrite your love story, and cultivate the confidence to embrace your true self in relationships and life through creating a new relationship autograph.

Become A Love Makeover Method Member

£24.99 per month for 6 months or one off Payment of £124.95 (1 month free!!)

My clients experience many different up-levels not just in their love life here are some testimonials...

I didn’t know what I was doing wrong in dating. Men would be really positive about me, and our dates, but I couldn’t seem to progress to a relationship, and most of the time he would disappear without any notice.

I took all this to heart and thought I was the problem, and I wasn’t good enough for any of these men.

After the program, I honestly feel like I have a completely different outlook when it comes to dating, and it feels wonderful.

I’ve learnt things about myself and my past that were causing me to believe when anything went wrong in dating it was my fault.

I now show up as the person I want to be, and I can now have direct, open and honest conversations with men while dating, and discuss what I am truly looking for in a partner. "

GAYLE'S DATES NEVER WENT ANYWHERE WHICH WAS CONFUSING AND MADE HER FEEL INSECURE.

Gayle realised that it was things from her past that were making her believe when anything went wrong in dating it was her fault and it meant she wasn’t

good enough for any of the men she was meeting.

Now, she doesn't doubt her enough-ness and has a completely different outlook when it comes to dating, and it feels wonderful.

"When I originally reached out to Sarah I felt completely isolated and just generally "stuck" in unhealthy life/relationships patterns.

I felt really drawn to her positivity and enthusiastic approach to life in general. She helped to draw me out of old negative patterns of "being" and enabled me to better explore who I want to be in the life we all have been given.

Through working with her I've been given the gift of clarity and better understanding into lifelong triggers/situations that cause discomfort and how to overcome those.

I now feel more peace and am embracing my life in ways I have not done in years.

Not only is she a wonderful, caring person, she is just FUN to speak with.

Her energy is infectious in the best of ways and I will forever be grateful for the gifts of self awareness and love she has helped me discover."

Jen felt completely isolated and just generally "stuck" in unhealthy life/relationships patterns

Now she has clarity and a better understanding into lifelong triggers/situations that cause discomfort and how to overcome those.

She now feels more at peace and is embracing life in ways she hasn't done in years.

"I found myself hating dating, regularly sacking it all off and quitting in frustration, I knew something had to change…. And that's when I found Sarah and the wonderful ladies in the group. What I was not expecting was the journey I went on.

I reconnected with myself

I feel so much better about who I am

I show up authentically not just on dates but in life.

There were weeks of soul searching all guided by Sarah and the support of the group.

I now feel in such a great place and am no longer desperate for the guy to show up, he is coming, we’ve just not met yet and I continue to have fun meeting people.

What I am not doing anymore is quitting in frustration.

And it's not just your love life that changes, I have changed my career after 11 years and truly believe the course helped me to achieve this.

I would wholeheartedly recommend working with Sarah, she is such a wonderful person to talk to and work with. I truly believe that my life is happier and richer having joined the Secure & Confident in Love group."

Esme had started to hate dating and feeling more frustrated by the dead-end men she met.

As a result she would regularly sack it all off and quit out of frustration.

After working through my process she has reconnected with herself and has more self confidence so she can show up more authentically on dates and in life.

With her new self-confidence she feels in such a great place, not desperate for a relationship and is no longer quitting dating out of frustration.

And she also changed her 11 year career!

"I wanted to work with Sarah because I ended a very toxic, narcissistic and codependent relationship.

Even though I ended it, I had a hard time letting that person go for my own good because my heart was still in it.

The most impactful part was fully seeing (not just knowing) how interconnected everything is. The Love-relationship is just an extension of all relationships to others and yourself.

I have started to set boundaries,(AND communicate them – GAME CHANGER)

See patterns in myself and others and therefore not fall into a trap every single time.

Seeing & acknowledging red flags off the bat and moving on which is so helpful when getting back into the ocean of dating.

Doing the work and working with Sarah has absolutely opened my eyes to seeing & accepting who another person TRULY is. And not denying reality.

If you are on the fence of working with Sarah, let me open that door for you.

She is such an amazing soul. She will provide knowledge, guidance, accountability, reliance, though-love if needed, kindness and care and help you discover new ways out of whatever situation you are in. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

On top of that, you will have one of your best laughs and cries with her you didn’t think you had in you.

Can’t thank Sarah enough."

Susanne was getting out of a toxic relationship and wanted to make sure history didn't repeat itself again

After working through my process she

Has the confidence to set boundaries, communicate them and uphold them.

She trusts herself to see patterns so she is not constantly fearing she will repeat past mistakes and no longer ignores red flags.

Doing the work has opened her eyes to seeing & accepting who another person TRULY is and not denying reality which can lead to repeating toxic love cycles.

I feel more confident in my own choices in general and also in men. I am not scared to get out there dating again.

I feel chill about it without putting any kind of pressure on myself.

I also feel aware of the deal breakers and the red flags I need to pay attention to.

Marie was fed up and struggling to trust her choices when it came to men.

After working together she built trust with herself again which meant that dating didn't feel so scary anymore.

Plus understanding her deal breakers means she has parameters, that help her weed out the trash so she wastes less time on people who she isn't compatible with from the beginning.

and this is me...

I went from 10+ years of repeating the same mistakes to finally breaking the cycle and meeting my partner.

I was a complete mess in my love life. Not realising I was part of the problem.

❤️Had a closed heart because I was so scared of making the same mistakes and having my heart broken again

❌Attracted all the unavailable guys in the North and South of England

🧐Wanted things to be different but didn't believe they could be

😩Had NO clue how much my past played out in dating and relationships.

By discovering my relationship autograph, changing my relationship foundation (fully supported by the universe), and being intentional about showing up differently, I created a new reality in my love life.

More testimonials

Common Questions Answered:

Q: Who is this membership for?

A: This membership is designed for amazing women over 40 who are ready to transform their love lives, break free from unhealthy patterns, and build functional, fulfilling relationships. If you're looking for love, struggling with dating, or want to improve your current relationship, this membership is tailor-made for you!

Q:What makes this membership different from other dating or relationship programs?

A: Great question! This membership goes beyond superficial dating advice. I combine my personal experiences, professional training, and a lot of love wisdom to provide you with a holistic approach to love and relationships. It's not just about finding a partner—it's about embracing your authenticity, nurturing self-love, and creating a love life that truly aligns with who you are.

Q: I've been hurt in the past. Can this membership really help me?

Absolutely! I understand the pain of heartbreak and the struggles that come with it. I am here to help you heal, let go of emotional baggage, and empower you to create healthy, loving connections. With my guidance and support, you'll gain the tools and mindset to overcome past hurts and open yourself up to the love you deserve.

Q: I'm sceptical about finding love after 40. Can this membership really make a difference?

A: I understand your scepticism, but let me assure you—love knows no age limits! I have helped women over 40 (including myself) find love and happiness. This membership is about shifting your perspective, embracing your worthiness of love, and taking positive action towards creating the relationship you desire. Love is absolutely possible at any age, and I am here to show you how.

Q: I'm really busy. Will I have time to participate in the membership fully?

I get it; life can get hectic! The Love Makeover Membership is designed with your busy schedule in mind. The lessons and tangible deliverables are structured to be easily digestible and can fit into your daily routine. Plus, you'll have access to a supportive community and resources you can engage with at your own pace. I'm here to support you every step of the way, no matter how packed your calendar may be.e.

Q: What if I don't feel comfortable sharing my personal experiences with others?

A: Your comfort and privacy are paramount to me. While I encourage participation, sharing personal experiences is always optional. I create a safe and non-judgmental space for you to share as much or as little as you're comfortable with.

Q: What if I join and it doesn't work for me?

A: I want you to feel confident joining the Love Makeover Membership. While I can't guarantee specific outcomes, I can guarantee that I will be there every step of the way, providing guidance, support, and personalised attention. I encourage you to fully engage with the materials, participate in the community, and reach out for help if facing any challenges. Remember, your transformation is in your hands, and I'm here to cheer you on!

Q: I've tried other programs, and they didn't work. How is this different?

A: I understand that previous experiences can be discouraging. What sets this membership apart is my unique blend of personal experiences, professional training, and unwavering commitment to your success. I've been in your shoes, and I know what it takes to break free from negative patterns and find love. This membership is designed to address the underlying factors that impact your love life, focusing on self-discovery, authenticity,

Q: What if I have more questions or need additional support?

A: I'm here for you! Contact me through the dedicated support channels, and I'll be happy to answer your questions, provide guidance regarding the work inside the membership. Please note I won't give additional 1:1 coaching outside the bi-weekly Q&A calls. But you are able to book 1:1 sessions with me for an additional but reduced cost. Details of how to. do that are inside the portal.

Q: How long does the membership last?

A: The Love Makeover Membership is designed as an ongoing support system for your love journey. There is no specific end date or time limit to your membership. I'm committed to providing continuous guidance and resources to help you navigate the ups and downs of your growth, dating and finding love. But there is an initial 6 month commitment, after that you can continue or cancel.

Q: Are there any hidden costs or upsells within the membership?

A: Nope, no hidden costs. The membership fee covers everything in the membership, including access to all the lessons, resources, community support, and any future updates or additions. I believe in transparency and want you to focus on your growth and transformation without surprises. The only additional cost would be if you wanted to add 1:1 sessions with me or upgrade to another tier.

Q: Can I access the materials and resources after my membership ends?

A: While the membership is active, you'll have full access to all the materials and resources. However, once your membership ends, your access to the platform and community will be revoked. I encourage you to make the most of your membership during the active period to absorb the valuable insights and tools provided.

Q: Can I join the membership if I'm in a relationship?

A: Absolutely! Whether single or in a relationship, this membership can be highly beneficial. If you're in a relationship, the insights and tools provided can help you strengthen your connection, improve communication, and create a more fulfilling partnership.

Q: Is this membership only for heterosexual women?

A: Absolutely not! Love and relationships are diverse and inclusive, and I embrace that wholeheartedly. This membership is open to women of all sexual orientations and gender identities.

Q: What if I'm not tech-savvy? Will I be able to navigate the membership platform?

A: Don't worry if you're not a tech wizard! I've designed the membership platform to be user-friendly and intuitive. You'll have easy access to all the materials, resources, and supportive community. And if you ever need any assistance, I'm here to give you a helping hand and guide you through any technical challenges.

Q: Can I cancel my membership if it's not the right fit for me?

A: When you sign up it's for a minimum period of 6 months. Because I believe that is the minimum amount of time you need to really delve into this work and see results. However, if after 7 days and fully completing the videos and workbooks in Phase One you feel it isn't a good fit for you just reach out and I'll assist you with the cancellation process.. Please note I do not give refunds.

Q: Will the membership guarantee that I find a partner?

A: While I can't guarantee specific outcomes, I can guarantee that the Love Makeover Membership provides you with valuable knowledge, guidance, and support to transform your love life. The success of finding a partner ultimately depends on various factors, including your readiness, effort, and external circumstances. I'm here to equip you with the tools you need and support you along your journey to love, but the rest is up to you.

Q: Can I gift the membership to a friend or family member?

A: Absolutely! If you believe the Love Makeover Membership would be a wonderful gift for someone special in your life, you can certainly purchase it.