Do You Want a Relationship, But The Risk of Getting Hurt Again is Holding You Back? Are You Ready to Break Free From The Dating Anxiety Cycle So You Can Go From Dating to Exclusive with Someone?

Embrace a New Chapter of Love: Unlock the Secrets to

Breaking Free from Anxious Love Habits and Unhealthy Relationship Patterns, Cultivating The You, You Want To Be And Being Ready To Meet The Right

Person For You After 40.

Your Path to Love and Confidence After 40 Starts Here

You've probably told yourself a million times that you'll stop making the same mistakes in choosing partners, but when it comes down to it, it's tough to follow through.

There's something in you that seems to be drawn to the same unhealthy relationship patterns, and it's hard to break free.

Or maybe you've been saying to yourself for the past two years, "Next month will be the right time to get back out there," but when the moment arrives, something always gets in the way.

But deep down, you know you don't want to be single forever.

You want to find a partner who can add to your already amazing life, someone to enjoy the simple things with (and sometimes go on wild and exciting adventures!). You want to meet someone to share your journey with, someone who will have your back and make you feel safe and supported. And vice versa.

Ask yourself: Do you really want to keep wasting time making the same mistakes or hiding away because you're afraid of rejection?

Don't you think it's time for a change before you miss out on finding your perfect match?

Here's the thing:

The problem isn't you—it's that you need a better plan, a game-changing approach that digs deep into your unique beliefs and programming, and addresses the root of the relationship issues you keep facing.

Discover The

Love Breakthrough Blueprint

And Unlock the Secrets to FindingA Functional, Fulfilling Relationships After 40!

Does any of this sound like you?

Tired of making the same damn mistakes in your choice of partners?

You want to find someone who truly complements your life and shares your values, but instead, you keep settling for the wrong ones, missing out on the deep connection and compatibility you crave.

Fed up with being stuck in toxic relationship patterns that drain your happiness?

You desire a healthy, loving partnership that brings out the best in you, but instead, you find yourself repeating destructive patterns, missing out on the joy and fulfilment of a harmonious relationship.

Sick and tired of telling yourself that you'll change, only to end up right back where you started? 

You want to break free from the cycle of self-sabotage and create lasting change, but instead, you feel trapped in a loop of disappointment, missing out on the personal growth and transformation that could lead to a successful love life.

Feel like you're constantly hitting a brick wall in your quest for love, and it's starting to wear you down?

You have a strong desire for a genuine connection with a compatible partner, but instead, you face countless dead ends and heartbreak, missing out on the happiness and fulfilment that a loving relationship can bring.

❌Frustrated with that nagging fear of rejection that holds you back from taking a chance?

You want to embrace vulnerability and put yourself out there, but instead, fear grips you, keeping you stuck in your comfort zone, missing out on the opportunities for deep connections and meaningful experiences.

❌Annoyed by all those missed opportunities and potential connections slipping through your fingers? 

You crave the excitement of meeting new people and forming meaningful connections, but instead, you let fear or hesitation prevent you from taking action, missing out on the potential love and happiness that awaits.

❌Frustrated from hiding away like a hermit, when it comes to potential opportunities for connecting with new people because you're too scared to put yourself out there?

You desire to actively participate in the dating world and seize opportunities for love, but instead, you let fear keep you on the sidelines, missing out on the chance to create a fulfilling and enriching love life.

❌Craving a real, deep connection with someone who's got your back, but feeling stuck in singledom?

You would love to be in a loving partnership filled with trust, support, and understanding, but instead, you find yourself navigating the dating scene alone, missing out on the emotional intimacy and shared experiences that come with a committed relationship.

❌Longing for the safety, support, and emotional intimacy that comes with a loving, committed relationship?

You dream of finding a partner who will be your rock, your confidant, and your cheerleader, but instead, you continue to face uncertainty and emotional distance, missing out on the profound love and support that a true partnership can provide.

Doubting the possibility of finding love over 40? 

You want to believe in love at any age, but that nagging voice of doubt creeps in. Will you let skepticism hinder your chances of finding love?

❌ Continuing to say YES to people when your gut tells you to RUN?

You've made a promise not to settle for less, yet it's hard to resist saying yes to those who aren't right for you. Is it loneliness or doubt that keeps you trapped in this cycle?

If yes, and you’re tired of it - join me, and let’s  wipe the slate clean and rewrite your love story.

Hi there

I'm Sarah

 I think you and I are both smart individuals, so I just want to let you know, that I know that you could probably figure things out given enough time. But the question is how much more time do you want waste?

For 10+ years, I repeated the same mistakes with men.

😬I was a complete mess in my love life. Not realising I was part of the problem.

❤️ Dated with a closed heart because I was so scared of making the same mistakes and having

my heart broken again.

❌Attracted all the unavailable guys in the North and South of England, triggering all my anxious dating tendencies to the extreme.

🧐Wanted things to be different but didn't believe they could be.

😩Had NO clue how much my past played out in dating and relationships.

I kept repeating these same mistakes until I unlocked the key that helped me take responsibility for my role in past relationships. 

And after addressing what was in my relationship autograph that was responsible for my unhelpful patterns and undesirable results, At 45, I am now in my first-ever healthy, long-term, committed relationship (We matched on Tinder 3 years ago 🥰)

Of course, it takes work, but it is a healthy, functional relationship that feels easy and fulfilling.

And now, through the power of 1:1 coaching I want to help you do the same.

Introducing

The Love Breakthrough Blueprint:

Unlock the Secrets to Finding a Healthy, Happy Functional, Fulfilling Relationships After 40!

My method is your personal roadmap to finding the fulfilling relationship you've been picturing when you’re day dreaming at work.

Unlike other approaches that barely scratch the surface, this blueprint takes you deep into the core patterns and beliefs that have been holding you back in love. 

By diving deep into the core of who you are, what you want and addressing the beliefs and patterns that no longer serve you, you clear the path for extraordinary connections to unfold.

Break Free from the Dating and Relationship Anxiety loop, Rediscover who you are

and cultivate self-confidence 

With your blueprint you'll gain the tools to take charge of your love life and feel empowered, both within and outside of a relationship.

When you're self-confident and able to be yourself it leads to a more intimate connection that's more satisfying and rewarding than ever before.

You’ll experience being loved and appreciated for being your authentic self. (Yup, letting your quips, quirks and weird hang out!)

Isn’t it time to end the sh*t show you’ve been experiencing and make your love life an experience filled with the joy and fulfilment you deserve?

(Plus be armed with the skills to manage yourself the not so joyful times with confidence, #relationshipsarenotalwaysrosey)

Join my 1:1 Coaching Program

Things I Can Help You Do

  • Stop toxic cycles and repeating the same mistakes with men

  • Escape the dating and relationship anxiety loop

  • Release baggage from the past and learn to regulate your emotions so you no longer give power to your past or let anxious tendencies take control of your mind and decisions.

  • Use the power of emotional regulation and breaking free from the past to transform your dating mindset and experiences

  • Build self love, respect, acceptance and compassion

  • Move on from heartbreak and pain from past relationships

  • Start to date again when the thought of it scares the crap out of you and you've no clue where to begin.

  • Give you love life a total makeover!

Examples what areas we cover in our time together:

 Foundations of Self-Actualisation and Empowerment

Let's start by building a strong foundation of self-love and worthiness because, hey, you deserve it! Together, we'll explore those limiting beliefs that have held you back and release those self-protecting patterns that no longer serve you.

Get ready to embrace a positive mindset and tap into your personal power as we set the stage for an amazing love journey ahead.

What you’ll get: Guided Self-Love Meditation A. Mirror Work Guide, Who The f*ck am I Self-Discovery Workbook

Understanding Past Patterns and Breaking Free

We're about to dive deep into the fascinating world of your past relationship patterns. Don't worry, we won't dwell on them forever! We'll uncover the secrets behind why you've been attracting the same types of partners and explore the root causes that keep those patterns on repeat.

Get ready to break free from the grip of the past and discover powerful strategies to create real change in your love life.

What you’ll get: Unveiling roadblocks workbook,  Pattern Recognition Worksheet, Pattern-Breaking Action Plan.

Rewriting Your Love Story

Time to rewrite your love story, and it's going to be EPIC! Together, we'll craft a compelling vision for your dream relationship, infused with your unique values, needs, and desires. Say goodbye to the old narrative and embrace a fresh, exciting chapter of love.

Get ready to unleash your inner storyteller and create a love story filled with hope, joy, and endless possibilities.

What you’ll get: Narrative Journaling Exercises

Embracing Authenticity and Self-Confidence

It's time to ditch the masks and embrace your authentic self, because who you are is absolutely amazing! We'll work on boosting your self-confidence and embracing your uniqueness.

Get ready to set healthy boundaries, communicate your needs with clarity and grace, and attract partners who appreciate the real you. It's time to let your inner light shine and radiate confidence in the dating world.

What you’ll get: Authenticity Journal Prompts, Confidence-Building Guided Meditation/ affirmations, Authenticity Action Guide.

Communication and Connection

Let's master the art of communication and take your connections to a whole new level. We'll dive into the secrets of active listening, empathy, and vulnerability, creating a safe space for meaningful conversations.

Get ready to nurture emotional intimacy, enhance understanding, and strengthen the foundation of your relationships. Communication is key, and you're about to become a pro!

What you’ll get: Effective Communication Toolkit,Relationship-Building Conversation Starters, Connection-building Action Plan.

Navigating Dating

Dating can be tricky, but fear not! We're here to navigate this wild dating landscape together. We'll explore dating strategies, optimise your dating profile, and make sure you're not slipping back into default habits.

Get ready to approach dating with a healthy positive mindset, resilience, and self-care practices that will keep you grounded on your quest for genuine connections and meaningful relationships.

What you’ll get:  Dating Mindset Shift Guide, Date Planning Toolkit,  Dating Quick Start Bundle (everything you need from optimising your dating profile, managing your dating energy to conversation guides)

Setting Yourself Up for Relationship Success

In this module, we'll lay the groundwork for relationship success, so when the right person comes along, you'll be ready to create something extraordinary.

We'll explore how to establish healthy relationship foundations, develop effective communication skills, and equip you with the tools for conflict resolution and problem-solving.

What you’ll get:  Your relationship values and vision, Healthy Boundaries Guide, Conflict Resolution Guide, Relationship Action plan.

Embracing a Future of Love and Fulfilment

We'll create an onward roadmap for your relationship goals, mapping out the steps to get there.

Get ready to sustain the transformation and continued growth, embracing a future that's brimming with love, happiness, and infinite possibilities.

What you’ll get: Love Roadmap Workbook (setting your steps and goals), Gratitude and Reflection Journal: Love Roadmap Adventure Kit (setting your steps and goals) Gratitude & Reflection Journal

Each week we will delve into different topics and I will provide you with the practical tools, exercises, and strategies to help you embrace a new chapter of love, break free from past patterns, cultivate self-confidence, and rewrite your love story to find a fulfilling relationship after40.

You will walkaway after our time with a clear roadmap for creating lasting relationship success, ensuring that your love story becomes everything you've ever dreamed of.

Get ready to embrace a future overflowing with love, joy, and fulfilment.

Ready?

Apply NOW

Limited Spots Available

Offer Price £450 (payment in full, see below for PP)

Option one

One time Payment

£450

Here's what else is included:

  • 6 1:1 coaching calls over 12 weeks

  • Transformative lessons inside a personal portal that teach you and give you everything you need to: 

  1. Let go of the past physically, mentally and emotionally.

  2. Change your relationship autograph and attraction energy

  3. Strengthen and deepen the relationship with yourself and feel more confident

  • Step-by-step checklists so you know what to do and don’t feel overwhelmed.

  • Printable workbooks for you to download and work through

  • Energy healing tools and practices, including deep meditations & hypnosis for unconscious mind healing and emotional release tools and practices.

Option two

Payment Plan

2 payments £230

Here's what else is included:

  • 6 1:1 coaching calls over 12 weeks

  • Transformative lessons inside a personal portal that teach you and give you everything you need to: 

  1. Let go of the past physically, mentally and emotionally.

  2. Change your relationship autograph and attraction energy

  3. Strengthen and deepen the relationship with yourself and feel more confident

  • Step-by-step checklists so you know what to do and don’t feel overwhelmed.

  • Printable workbooks for you to download and work through

  • Energy healing tools and practices, including deep meditations & hypnosis for unconscious mind healing and emotional release tools and practices.

On the fence?

Book a discovery call with me here to see if this opportunity is right for you.

Working with me My clients experience many different up-levels not just in their love life here are some testimonials...

I went from being afraid to be seen by men, after my toxic marriage, to feeling safe and sexy with my new man.

I no longer walk on egg shells or second guess myself within the relationship.

If I need reassurance, space to think, say what I like/don't like he will hold space for me with genuine patience.

I never thought a man like this could exist; he's like a male version of myself. I am no longer settling,

I'm going for what meets my standards and Sarah's coaching has helped me to find true love, better relationships with friends/family and career progression.

Thank you Sarah!"

Leonie went from being afraid to be seen by men, after my toxic marriage, to feeling safe and sexy with my new man.

She no longer walk on egg shells or second guesses herself within her relationship.

"Coaching with me helped her find true love, better relationships with friends/family and career progression. "

I didn’t know what I was doing wrong in dating. Men would be really positive about me, and our dates, but I couldn’t seem to progress to a relationship, and most of the time he would disappear without any notice.

I took all this to heart and thought I was the problem, and I wasn’t good enough for any of these men.

After the program, I honestly feel like I have a completely different outlook when it comes to dating, and it feels wonderful.

I’ve learnt things about myself and my past that were causing me to believe when anything went wrong in dating it was my fault.

I now show up as the person I want to be, and I can now have direct, open and honest conversations with men while dating, and discuss what I am truly looking for in a partner. "

GAYLE'S DATES NEVER WENT ANYWHERE WHICH WAS CONFUSING AND MADE HER FEEL INSECURE.

Gayle realised that it was things from her past that were making her believe when anything went wrong in dating it was her fault and it meant she wasn’t

good enough for any of the men she was meeting.

Now, she doesn't doubt her enough-ness and has a completely different outlook when it comes to dating, and it feels wonderful.

"When I originally reached out to Sarah I felt completely isolated and just generally "stuck" in unhealthy life/relationships patterns.

I felt really drawn to her positivity and enthusiastic approach to life in general. She helped to draw me out of old negative patterns of "being" and enabled me to better explore who I want to be in the life we all have been given.

Through working with her I've been given the gift of clarity and better understanding into lifelong triggers/situations that cause discomfort and how to overcome those.

I now feel more peace and am embracing my life in ways I have not done in years.

Not only is she a wonderful, caring person, she is just FUN to speak with.

Her energy is infectious in the best of ways and I will forever be grateful for the gifts of self awareness and love she has helped me discover."

Jen felt completely isolated and just generally "stuck" in unhealthy life/relationships patterns

Now she has clarity and a better understanding into lifelong triggers/situations that cause discomfort and how to overcome those.

She now feels more at peace and is embracing life in ways she hasn't done in years.

"I found myself hating dating, regularly sacking it all off and quitting in frustration, I knew something had to change…. And that's when I found Sarah and the wonderful ladies in the group. What I was not expecting was the journey I went on.

I reconnected with myself

I feel so much better about who I am

I show up authentically not just on dates but in life.

There were weeks of soul searching all guided by Sarah and the support of the group.

I now feel in such a great place and am no longer desperate for the guy to show up, he is coming, we’ve just not met yet and I continue to have fun meeting people.

What I am not doing anymore is quitting in frustration.

And it's not just your love life that changes, I have changed my career after 11 years and truly believe the course helped me to achieve this.

I would wholeheartedly recommend working with Sarah, she is such a wonderful person to talk to and work with. I truly believe that my life is happier and richer having joined the Secure & Confident in Love group."

Esme had started to hate dating and feeling more frustrated by the dead-end men she met.

As a result she would regularly sack it all off and quit out of frustration.

After working through my process she has reconnected with herself and has more self confidence so she can show up more authentically on dates and in life.

With her new self-confidence she feels in such a great place, not desperate for a relationship and is no longer quitting dating out of frustration.

And she also changed her 11 year career!

"I wanted to work with Sarah because I ended a very toxic, narcissistic and codependent relationship.

Even though I ended it, I had a hard time letting that person go for my own good because my heart was still in it.

The most impactful part was fully seeing (not just knowing) how interconnected everything is. The Love-relationship is just an extension of all relationships to others and yourself.

I have started to set boundaries,(AND communicate them – GAME CHANGER)

See patterns in myself and others and therefore not fall into a trap every single time.

Seeing & acknowledging red flags off the bat and moving on which is so helpful when getting back into the ocean of dating.

Doing the work and working with Sarah has absolutely opened my eyes to seeing & accepting who another person TRULY is. And not denying reality.

If you are on the fence of working with Sarah, let me open that door for you.

She is such an amazing soul. She will provide knowledge, guidance, accountability, reliance, though-love if needed, kindness and care and help you discover new ways out of whatever situation you are in. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

On top of that, you will have one of your best laughs and cries with her you didn’t think you had in you.

Can’t thank Sarah enough."

Susanne was getting out of a toxic relationship and wanted to make sure history didn't repeat itself again

After working through my process she

Has the confidence to set boundaries, communicate them and uphold them.

She trusts herself to see patterns so she is not constantly fearing she will repeat past mistakes and no longer ignores red flags.

Doing the work has opened her eyes to seeing & accepting who another person TRULY is and not denying reality which can lead to repeating toxic love cycles.

Kerry wants to remain anonymous but is happy to chat with anyone 1:1 to share her experience.

❌Having never dated online before & fearing repeating past mistakes with men

TO

✅Being empowered, secure and at ease and attracting quality matches and going on dates.

❤️AND IS NOW IN A RELATIONSHIP with her dream guy!

I feel more confident in my own choices in general and also in men. I am not scared to get out there dating again.

I feel chill about it without putting any kind of pressure on myself.

I also feel aware of the deal breakers and the red flags I need to pay attention to.

Marie was fed up and struggling to trust her choices when it came to men.

After working together she built trust with herself again which meant that dating didn't feel so scary anymore.

Plus understanding her deal breakers means she has parameters, that help her weed out the trash so she wastes less time on people who she isn't compatible with from the beginning.

and this is me...

I went from 10+ years of repeating the same mistakes to finally breaking the cycle and meeting my partner.

I was a complete mess in my love life. Not realising I was part of the problem.

❤️Had a closed heart because I was so scared of making the same mistakes and having my heart broken again

❌Attracted all the unavailable guys in the North and South of England

🧐Wanted things to be different but didn't believe they could be

😩Had NO clue how much my past played out in dating and relationships.

By discovering my relationship autograph, changing my relationship foundation (fully supported by the universe), and being intentional about showing up differently, I created a new reality in my love life.

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